You win some you lose some

Sometimes in life you get hurt or hurt others. It seems to me that when you are hurt or feel attacked, you go out of your way to hurt others. Why is this? Is it something we do to make ourselves feel better? Does it really make you feel better to make some one feel as bad as you do? Is it something we do to some how justify you being hurt? Do you want to make things equal? Do you do it just to be mean? Its an odd behavior that we do. It doesn't make the situation any better. It actually makes it worse. Than instead of one person being hurt and upset (and getting over it), both are that way. What do you do in the the meantime? Some one has to break the silence. Some one has to say something. Has to put their pain aside to make amends. Does that make you the "loser" in the fight? Or does that make you the bigger person? I think you have to consider the point you are trying to make. If your point is worth it than wait. If it isn't set it aside, take the first step towards fixing it. Not to often is the point really worth hurting someone so much. People say life is 50/50 when in all reality it is 30/70, you give some and you take some. The choice is yours.