Reasons

Life is one big maze. You never know what the next turn will bring. Or how one thing will effect another. My dad always says "hindsight is 20/20" It is totally true. You never know how your actions will make a difference until after the fact. By the time you realize it you cant go back and act differently. Everything happens for a reason. It may not make sense now but one day it will. You just have to wait and see the big picture. There are things in my life I wish didn't happen or I wish I didn't do but I'm glad that they happened. If given the chance to relive my life I would do it all the same. Everything that I have done or been through as made me who I am today. It has made me the wife and mother that I am and I wouldn't change it for the world I think that we go through things to build us. Think about it..........If we never suffered or had any pain we wouldn't be able to sympathize with others. If we never knew some sort of happiness we wouldn't be able to share in celebrations with others. Everyone wants to blame their parents for the way that they are. You know I just think in most cases it is an excuse. You chose to be a victim or not. You chose to follow the statistics or not. You chose your own path and destiny. It is your life to live not anyone else. You chose where to take it