I have heard

I have heard that women are ruthless and men are just mean. I think that it is both way. Men can be just as ruthless as woman they just don't realize it or want to accept the fact that they are. Girls are mean in a sneaky way they back stab. Men are mean up front and say how it is and don't care if it hurts or not. My sister says it best "they don't have time for feelings". I think that this is very true. In away it is good because it gets everything out in the open instead of girls who are hush hush about things It is weird because everyone veiws thing differently. You can have 3 people who all had the same thing happen but they will all tell a different story. Why is that? I think alot about my life and the things that have happened in it. If those things didn't happen, good or bad, I would not be who I am or where I am today. It is crazy because at the time you don't know why these things are happening to you or how they are going to effect you later. Think what if there was a kid lost in a store and you helped find his mom. You don't kow how that will change his life or yours. Or what if you never broke up with that guy would you be happy with him. Would you be married and have kids or what? would you be where you are today if you stayed or didn't stay with him? Life is like a painting that isn't finished. There are all kinds of colors and brush strokes but no one knows what it will look like until it is done. You will never know how your choices or action will effect your life until it is ended